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Bhaktapur, Nepal

The truck next to our car belched once and a noxious cloud of diesel fumes exploded through the window. Muzzy turned his head to look at Kat and I in the backseat and he was a picture of the man with the exploding cigar, face covered in soot, eyes wide, expression of chagrin. Kat and I laughed in between gasps for breath, our eyes watering. With our scarves pulled over our noses, squeezed into the backseat, we were nothing more than four burning eyes peering into a haze of smog and traffic. The truck ahead of us was full of workers all gyrating to a popular tune, waving and laughing on the Friendship Highway leaving Kathmandu. As uncomfortable as I was, I was still in awe of the fact that I was merely days from the Tibetan border and this highway was the only road up through the valley. Having rejected the squalor of the street in front of Bodhnath, we persuaded the driver to take us all the way to Bhaktapur, some 14 kilometers east, the second largest city in Nepal. It was festival time. Maha Shivaratri was coming and Losar, Tibetan New Year, was two days off.

Once out of Kathmandu the city squalor yielded to farmland. The valley floor is rich, producing more than one crop a year, and we passed small settlements of brick houses, all going up, precariously built as if the first strong wind would blow them down. Surrounded by fields of wild mustard and cauliflower, they looked like small country houses anywhere except that the women wore saris. The entrance to Bhaktapur rose up abruptly on the side of the river and we were deposited, with our luggage, at the bus stop on the edge of town. Our driver tried to explain that no taxis were allowed any further. It was useless to try to ascertain how far we would have to go before we actually reached a place to stay. Best just to grab our packs and start walking.

Bhaktapur is an ancient city rising up from the north bank of the Hanumante River. It is the most Hindu of all Nepalese cities and allows no vehicular traffic in the old part of the city apart from a few small mini-vans used for school buses, some odd tractor devices and occasional delivery trucks. Because of this it is unpolluted, quiet and amiably walkable. We trudged down a narrow winding street in between tall buildings, and came to a square with lots of tourist shops and a small guard house where we were told that we had to pay to go any further. Lounging around in groups of two and three, clean-cut teenaged touts smiled in a most engaging manner. There was the usual language hassle at the window, "German? French?" "American." "Ahhhh…Amerika!" and then some broken conversation in English. The young boys eagerly volunteered to help interpret though they hardly understood much more English than the little man in the booth. We paid the 300 rupees to enter and then asked if that meant 300 rupees every time we came and went. "Bhaktapur very clean city, not dirty like Kathmandu. Money used to build statues and fix broken things. Very quiet, very clean, you stay! How long you stay?" We had intended to stay only a couple of days, but when the toll booth man explained via the boys that he would mark the back of our "ticket" with a date and we could come and go with no further fee, we had him put us down for a week. We took our handmade, beautifully printed paper ticket and entered the gated area to the old city.

Our "guides" led us to the Namaste Guest House on a street just behind Taumadi Tole, one of the three main squares around which Bhaktapur is built. A young man in a windbreaker and jogging pants came out to greet us. Narayan spoke good English, was very earnest and briefly explained that the rest of the house was in mourning. His grandfather had died a few days before, all the men were dressed in mourning white and he was the only one who could interact with the guests. With his large round eyes and slightly nervous manner, he was a rather serious landlord, but he eagerly led us up past the rooms that the family occupied on the second floor, to the top floor. The top two floors of the house accommodated tourists. At the very top, our rooms opened onto the flat roof and looked out over the city. It was clean, Spartan, and adequate for the price of $12, which Narayan assured us nervously was very fair, very fair. For $7, Kat's room was no bigger than a closet. When she stepped out the door and turned directly to the right, she was in her bathroom…a nice tiled squat toilet and shower affair. Our room was spacious with windows facing the verandah rooftop. To reach our toilet and shower, we exited a small door next to our beds and walked along a narrow balcony. The sink was at one end, toilet and shower at the other. It was precarious. I had the feeling that the whole arrangement would collapse if more than one person stood out there. It listed toward the maze of backyards below. Until we actually closed the door to the small room with the shower and toilet, we were right out in the open, in view of the neighbors. When we took a shower, it was imperative to remove the toilet paper first. The showerhead emptied right over the toilet bowl. All of this coupled with my inability to figure out the hot water system led to a love-hate relationship with this bathroom. I could write an entire book on the bathrooms of Asia. But, the room was lovely and the beds fair to good. I realized why the guidebooks suggested south facing windows. I slept in long johns and socks most of the time I was in Nepal. South facing windows meant maximum exposure to the sun, important since none of the rooms we stayed in had heat. We were the only occupants on this floor, and we freely scuttled back and forth to one another's rooms. Kat's monastic cell allowed her to do little more than lie on her bed when she was in there, but she loved that eccentricity. It's one window looked directly out at the Himalayas. How could you beat that?

The view from the rooftop was wonderful. When the valley haze, the milk fog, cleared we could see the Himalayan foothills. The top of the Nayatapola, the tallest temple in Nepal, dedicated to the goddess Laxmi floated illusively through the maze of wires precariously attached like huge rat's nests to a tall pole. Across the street, a beautifully carved window frame outlined a man with his child. He smiled at us and brought the baby's hands up in a "namaste" greeting. All up and down the street shadows moved across the windows of the houses. Ancient old crones in saris with shawls draped over their heads peered down at the street below, called to vendors, talked to neighbors, fed pigeons, bounced small children in their laps or just watched the constant parade of life. Children ran through the streets rolling old tires, chasing each other, squealing with laughter and throwing water balloons. Shopkeepers squatted outside their stores smoking. Women stopped to look over merchandise and visit. And occasionally a tourist would wander by with a necklace of cameras, surrounded by several small children and earnest young "guides". After a day or two, with our laundry hanging from the line stretched across a corner of the rooftop we felt like part of the neighborhood.

Walking to the corner from the Namaste, we turned onto the main roadway, a wide bricked path that meandered past shops and houses in a graceful curve out into Taumadhi Tole. To the left was Bhairabnath Temple where a constant stream of women left offerings of oil, flowers, and incense, reaching down to ring the bell and smear tika paste on their foreheads or in the part of their hair. There was a large raised platform area to one side where children played, people sat talking and smoking and old men lay in the sun. Small shops and cafes were arranged around the remaining two sides of the square. Narrow lanes led off like the spokes of a wheel, continuing their gentle incline toward the river. We wandered down one of these and stopped at the shop of a basket vendor. Huge baskets were stacked in orderly piles. The largest ones, dokka, attached with a band around the forehead and balanced on the back and hip and were used to carry heavy loads. Looking back up toward the square, a woman was bathing at an open water faucet, deftly changing her sari and leaning over to wash her long black hair then twisting it into a bun. When she was finished she filled two enormous brass jugs. Placing one on her head and the other on her hip, she moved off up the hill.

We continued down a narrow alley with buildings towering overhead. There was brick everywhere. We had passed several small brick factories in the valley on our way from Kathmandu. Bhaktapur was in a state of rebuilding, having been destroyed by earthquakes twice, once in the 30's and again in the 1950's. The German government poured money into restoration projects for temples, dwellings, sculpture and carving, and repair of the underground reservoirs that once held an abundant water supply for the city. The reservoirs were still in use throughout the city, though they were not nearly as lush as they had been. The huge greenish pools and deep brick and stone grottoes where people came to bathe were only a shadow of the magnificent system of waterworks that was once the pride of this ancient medieval city. The alley finally opened out into Potters Square where a sea of black and red clay pots lay drying on a carpet of straw. Old men and women were busy working at potter's wheels. They seemed perplexed that we were there and several held up their hands to protest being photographed. We were alone, without any other tourists and not with a tour group. Putting the camera away we moved off toward the main part of town. On the way we passed three old women on a small brick porch. One was leaning against the wall dozing with her skirt pulled up past her knees, warming herself in the early spring sun. By her dress I could see she was Tamang. Her hand was tucked into a voluminous belt wrapped around the waist of her sari. These belts serve as both purse and shopping bag. A few feet away an old man in traditional Nepali pants, shirt and topi, the indigenous Nepali hat, was smoking a huge wooden water pipe. For a moment I was in a National Geographic magazine, moving back in time.

Durga

The goddess Durga is the protector of Bhaktapur. Durga, also known as Kali, is the destructive manifestation of Shiva's consort, Shakti. Durga's benign, smiling face belies her vengeful nature, her bloodstained mouth devouring the world. A wandering group of gypsies acting out stories of Durga moved from neighborhood to neighborhood throughout Bhaktapur. Each day they occupied a different section of the city streets. In Durga's vengeful aspect, she wore a huge red mask with fierce bulging eyes and protruding bloodthirsty tongue. People pressed offerings of money into her palm or left incense, food, or live chickens around her makeshift altar. The hapless chickens clucked and fluttered at the end of their ropes, tied by the leg to a large drum that was part of the portable altar. Rounding a corner one afternoon we came upon a crowd of young boys who had surrounded Durga. Crouching down with one arm stretched toward Durga, frantically waving their hands and whistling through their teeth, yelling "hey, hey, hey!" they taunted her until Durga whirled around and ran straight into the group. The chase was on! Spectators scattered, arranging themselves on the steps of statues and temples and houses. Young girls, not allowed to participate, sat with their mothers and fathers, laughing and shouting as the boys rushed away from the ominous arms of Durga. Disappearing down a long winding alley, we heard shrieks coming from another direction. Suddenly an explosion of screaming children burst from the narrow alley with Durga in hot pursuit. When a boy was caught, Durga twisted his ear and held onto him until the boy paid a fine. Durga released him with a resounding thump on the head. The game went on all day and far into the evening. At dusk, Durga drew crowds of watchers as the small helper boys drummed and sang, whirling around with their dirty pleated skirts and ragged turbans flying in the dusky light. Working herself into a frenzy, Durga snatched up a chicken, bit its head off, spewing blood over the crowd as she whirled in ecstasy. The young assistants plied the crowd for offerings. Photos were absolutely not allowed, even for money, and as little hands reached out to grab the camera, we headed for the Namaste.

Bhaktapur was not as cosmopolitan as Kathmandu, but it was bustling because it was festival time. There was music and activity all night long. Morning came, and once again Kat crept across the hall. We headed out to the Sunny Cafe, for which Narayan had given us a much worn paper ticket entitling us to a discount on breakfast. There were very few people out this early and no tourists at all as we shivered around the corner to Nayatapola Square and the Sunny Café. Gingerly pushing open the door and stepping single file through the narrow entrance, we made our way past the wretched reeking toilet to the stairs. Barely wide enough for one, the hard-packed earthen steps were like a narrow ladder, very steep with an impossibly low head clearance. Climbing past the living quarters on the second floor, through the dining area on the third floor and up to the top floor, the young proprietor rushed around throwing all the windows open and rubbing the sleep from his eyes. He rummaged under the counter at the back of the room and hastily found a cassette tape to put on the stereo. Then he stood waiting patiently as I ordered, "Milk tea, large pot", which would by now elicit blank stares even from Kat and Muzzy. I hastily amended it to, "Milk tea, big pot". He looked relieved and rushed off to start the water. When tea arrived, we ordered breakfast and filled our chipped, well-worn mugs with hot milk tea, wrapping our hands around its warmth and staring out the open windows. The fog lay over everything like a thin veil. Out of the mist, Bhaktapuris took human form, bustling across the square, chatting, calling to children, emerging from the mist like players taking a stage. Shrouded in pashminas, feet in socks, hunkered over to conserve body heat, we watched the morning unfold like the first scene of a familiar play. Women with baskets of offerings stopped by the temple. Young children in school uniforms clamored for seats in vans that drove through the square to carry them to school. Farmers from the countryside carried baskets of vegetables on their heads and set up shop on cloths spread out on the bricks as housewives chatted and laughed and bargained, rearranging shawls around their heads and shoulders. I couldn't help chuckling as I saw our young man from the Sunny scurry across the square to buy eggs for our breakfast.

As the fog lifted and sun filled the square, life began to quicken. Jaypu women, who only live in and around Bhaktapur, walked in pairs swaying rhythmically in their black and red bordered saris, heavy white cotton shawls draped over their heads and shoulders. Their distinctive saris are wrapped fan-like to reveal a small section of leg from behind. The older women have rectangular blue tattoos on their ankles. These tattoos can be used to bargain for food in the afterlife. Younger women still wear traditional saris but the red borders are now crocheted in bright synthetic yarns, or are shot through with strands of green or gold lurex. Women bring huge brass containers to the water spigot, cleaning and polishing them with sand to a soft burnished glow. Merchants catering to the tourist trade start opening shop. The young man with the music shop, no more than a dark hole in the wall of a magnificent Newari building carved with ancient grilles and frames, fires up his stereo and the music of Sur Suddha fills the square. Still clutching our tea, the sun finally reaches the open window of the top floor of the Sunny and we begin to relax. The music of flute, tabla and cymbal echoes from building to building, a fitting soundtrack to another day.

It is the Festival of Shivaratri, Shiva's birthday. From now on it will be warmer. All over the city people gather wood for small fires. A family of Tamang farmers, fresh from the countryside, wanders into the square. I am fascinated by the looks on their faces, exactly reflecting my own sense of wonder. There is an ancient grandma, her gray hair wound tightly into a bun at the nape of her neck, her lean wrinkled stomach visible between the top of her skirt and the bottom of her choli. The weight of the gold plugs that run from the top of her ear down to the bottom make her lobes hang forward. She clutches the hands of two small toddlers. A younger woman, similarly clad, holds a baby on her hip, its eyes rimmed with kohl, its little bare bottom peeking from beneath a colorful shirt, a small gold anklet on one leg. Two other women, a young boy and a very old man, bent like a question mark from years of carrying mountains of wood and sacks of grain on his back, join them. The father, dressed in a lunghi and western-style shirt topped by a suit jacket, completes the family group. They stand together at the foot of the Nayatapola, gaping at its magnificence.

The day is full of subdued excitement and anticipation. We have no idea what to expect. At Pashupatinath, the huge Hindu temple outside of Kathmandu, saddhus and pilgrims come from all over Nepal and India to participate in this sacred festival. It is a regular circus of freaks. Holy men with a plethora of mutilations and self-mortifications abound. Matted hair, ash-covered torsos, arms held aloft for years on end, spikes through cheeks, weights suspended from unexpected appendages, barefoot, naked and in loin cloths, they all converge on Pashupatinath. The guides tell us again and again that this is the one day of the year anyone can smoke ganga without fear of reprisals. It is Shiva's sacred herb. Near the temples, awash with fresh sacrificial blood you can, indeed, smell the old familiar odor of "the herb". It makes a nostalgic backdrop to the momentous events. At dusk there is music in the air and a constant stream of people winding their way down the long twisting main street over to Dattatraya Square. As darkness falls we stand on the rooftop and looked out over the valley. The foothills are dancing with hundreds of small bonfires. We go down to join the stream of worshipers moving to Dattatraya Square and pass more small fires in alleys and side streets. Families are gathered around them warming themselves, turning their backsides to the fires. Women lift their saris to get more heat. During my daily sojourns I had noticed irregular large carved stones laid in among the regular brick. Tonight these stones are askew, pushed or tossed aside as if by some giant's hand. Looking closer, I see small cavities with sacred lingams, phallic shaped stones, symbols of Shiva's primal energy. The lingam stones glisten with oil and red tika powder. This is the only day of the year they are exposed. Tomorrow the heavy marker stones will be back in place as if this night had never happened. Of all the secrets that abound in Nepal, to me this clandestine exposure of the hidden sacred is the most wonderful.

We reach Dattatraya Square and find a place to sit off to the side and out of the way. This temple is dedicated to the 3 major gods of the Hindu trinity and is said to be constructed from the trunk of a single tree. Throngs of worshipers enter the temple. All around the edges of the pagoda-like roof and from dozens of small windows small oil lamps flicker. The temple itself is writhing with movement and light and echoes with the low hum of chanting. It resembles a giant glittering anthill. I have never seen such a spectacle in all my life. It is surreal, sitting there in the dark with the crackle of bonfires, people coming and going, eating treats, laughing, temple bells tinkling, the hum of priests chanting, the rhythmic pulse of drums and wail of horns. We watch for hours, finally wandering back to our side of town and our rooftop rooms. On the way up the stairs we pass Narayan's family celebrating the end of mourning and Maha Shivaratri with food and family guests. As the bonfires burn down slowly, the chanting and drumming continues until early morning when the sun rises pink and hazy, creeping down the sides of the Himalayas.


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